Today’s sexpert is Dr. Ava Cadell, Ph.D., founder of Loveology University, online classes couples and singles can take to improve their sex technique, and author of The Pocket Idiot’s Guide to Oral Sex. Here’s what she told Sexcerpts is her best sex tip:
Dr. Ava explains:
“A girl in charge is incredibly arousing, and sexual confidence is the biggest turn-on for men. Just imagine if you were 10 times bolder sexually. What would you do? Talk erotically, do a striptease, use handcuffs and a blindfold, or masturbate in front of your lover to demonstrate what turns you on?
“The first step is to get into a juicy state of mind and then release your inner sexpot by loving your body and surrendering to all the pleasures you deserve. The more confident you act, the more confident you will look and feel. Being bolder can be the spark that ignites your flames of passion.
“If you want to lose your inhibitions during sex, ask your lover if you can put a blindfold over his eyes. The fact that he can’t see you makes you feel much less inhibited and more confident, which allows you to engage in some pretty racy sexual activities. So let your hair down and try some new sexual positions, like the side-slide, where you sit on top of him sideways instead of facing him, or in reverse cowgirl. Add some sex toys like Evolved’s Bendable Flexems to find your G-spot or his prostate, and use plenty of lube for a smoother, silkier, and sexier experience.”
For more on Dr. Ava, visit her website.