We’re all for asking what you want — and getting it — in bed, but this weekend, put yourself in your partner’s shoes and do something that you know he (or she) likes…without asking for anything in return.
It’s okay if your foreplay involves, say, grilling him a perfect steak instead of a purely physical move. And actually, we’d be hard-pressed to find a guy who wouldn’t want some type of food whipped up for him (or picked up for him) pre-sex, so good thinking there if the way to your guy’s heart is through his stomach. Here are some ideas:
• One bout of non-reciprocal oral sex — talk about a treat!
• One sweet food surprise, like the aforementioned steak or a small bar of decadent chocolate, before a romp. Share it. Now that’s hot.
• One come-hither outfit that you know he loves, even if it’s a little tight or trashy. In fact, the tighter and trashier the better!
• One non-sexual, caring act, like picking up his dry-cleaning or reminding him to call his brother on his birthday. When he thanks you (and he’d better!), follow it with a deep kiss.
‘Cause sometimes it’s the thought that counts, even when it comes to sex.
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