There is no “normal” when it comes to how many times per week couples do the deed. For some, it’s every day. For others, it’s more like once a week. Or 2.5 times a week, if you go by this survey we reported on a couple of months ago. This weekend, for fun, try and increase the number of times you usually have sex.
If you normally don’t do it at all on weekends, shag your partner and savor the look of surprise on his or her face. If you make a point of making love on both Saturday and Sunday, try to double up one day, maybe doing it completely differently each time: a quickie, then a marathon sex session; or a bout of TLC-laden touching, then an S&M-infused headboard-splitter next time. (If you’re a Fifty Shades of Grey fan, check out these sex tips.)
However you decide to take on this week’s challenge, focus on the real end game: It’s not about notching the nookie on your bedpost, it’s about connecting with your partner. But upping the frequency might increase your odds of grabbing some of that sweet sense of togetherness you haven’t had in a while. That alone is worth giving it a go.
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