Sex with a longtime partner often waxes and wanes: Maybe you’ve go from having fantastic, hot, spontaneous sex several times a week to having very little sex at all in the span of a few months or a few years. This weekend, think about the non-sexual things you used to do with your partner during those “hot” times to get your motor running anew.
Maybe, when you and your beau first got together, you used to go on a ton of movie dates, or you often shared a pitcher of Michelob at the cheapest dive bar you could find. Now, try to eat, drink, or experience those things again, whether it’s going for a bike ride like you always used to love, or just having a cocktail together at the end of the day.
We’ll bet that if you can track down that trail you used to take or the cheap booze you used to buy, it’ll start a giggle-filled conversation in which you reminisce about those times — and maybe get inspired to give sex a try. With all of those old familiar times on your mind, those warm feelings might just trickle down south.
Have fun, and if you’d like to, tell us below what kinds of non-sexual activities you and your partner used to love doing when you first got together. We wanna hear!
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My b/f and I always used to go to the clubs and go dancing when we first met. It was so fun! He’s such a good dancer and I’d always wear a sexy dress. We’d stay out until late just having fun. We don’t do it much anymore but I would love to try it again!