Is it possible to toil so hard at your chosen profession and make so much money that you hire a dominatrix to help sort out your feelings about your earnings? Yep, according to an essay by “Goddess Nia” for New York Magazine‘s fashion blog, The Cut. Wealthy guys she calls “pay pigs” hire Nia, sending her money via PayPal or buying her expensive gifts, to demoralize them where it counts: their wallets. It sounds sexual, but it’s not — well, not technically.
Here’s how she got started:
The first step was joining Fetlife and Collarme, websites catering to the BDSM community. They’re social networking sites with options for specific kinks. I joined all the groups related to fin-dommes. I had to create a persona. You can’t be struggling or desperate. The subs want a woman who likes to splurge, who likes bags and shoes. You need to be bossy, demand to be spoiled. So I uploaded pictures and wrote a bratty profile like, “Guess what? You work so hard on making all this money, and now I’m taking it! Just like that. How does that make you feel?”
Suddenly I had extremely wealthy, successful figures getting in touch with me. They feel enslaved by their companies; they’ve spent their whole lives making money for other people. They want to release that.
Nia says she completely controls one man’s paycheck, allowing him money for housing and necessities, and she spends the rest. And here’s how she, ahem, “relates” to a prominent New York City chef:
Sub-Chef is a super-successful restaurateur. He’s the only one who’s ever crossed the line sexually, because he confessed to masturbating to me. So I put his cock in a cage. Now he’s inside a chastity belt and can only masturbate one week out of the month, and that’s only if he can answer my trivia questions. Isn’t it crazy? This famous chef is walking around in a cock cage. When he failed a quiz about Arrested Development, I ordered him to write 2,000 words on the meaning of obedience and wouldn’t unlock the cage. I went to one of his restaurants and said, “My moules frites are subpar; you have to personally remake them now.” Meanwhile, the key to his cock cage is around my neck, and the waitress is watching from the corner.
Our first question was, “What’s a cock cage?” Check out a relatively SFW pic of one here. Looks uncomfortable.
Nia says that although she doesn’t do anything physical with her “pigs,” other financial dommes do.
I make somewhere between $3,000 and $5,000 each month. Most of it goes to student loans. One Goddess I know makes a million a year, and she was just gifted a Mercedes. But those women have been doing it forever and actually have a sexual connection.
Nice work if you can get it. (And if you can hack it.)
[The Cut]
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