Lust and Long Distance Relationships

Here are 5 ways to keep a long distance relationship red hot. 

1. Pamper yourself. This is a great time to visit a toy store and pick up a few goddies you’ve always wanted to try out. Indulge your desire to experiment with solo sex…and let your man know what you’re up to. This may make from some…

2. Hot phone sex. The phone is perhaps one of the most erotic tools of the modern age. And it keeps getting better with photo and video capability. Provocative text messages, sweet, hot whispers down the line. Tell him your dirtiest fantasies about him and chat about what turns you both on. You may soon find yourself going hands-free. But if you’re feeling vintage try…

3. The old-fashioned love letter. If you’re not much of a writer, go to the great classics of erotica (A.N. Roquelare, aka Anne Rice, is great for modern, steamy prose whereas Lady Chatterley’s Lover or Story of O are well-suited if you want to trip back a few decades.) Otherwise, write down what you are too bashful to say. Part of the joy of letter writing is fine stationery and even a spritz of his favorite scent.

4. IOU… a sensual massage…kisses up and done your spine… Make getting back in the same city an arrival to remember. Email or send erotic IOUs to your honey that can be redeemed upon return to you warm embrace.

5. Why not make use of modern technology? Hook it up with a video cam on your computer…and let the good times roll…long distance…with your own live video chat.