Are you girlfriend material?

When guys meet you, what do they see? A buddy? A one night stand? The love of their life? Or a potential girlfriend? After reading these tips, you may discover that the reason you are single/in a reltaionship has a lot to do with the signals you’re sending out. Send out your messages straight and reel in a great catch. (By the way, here are 3 places to find your next boyfriend.)
Be a good listener. Not only to be love to be truly heard, but this will give you great hints on how he likes to be cared for, what his interests are, etc., giving you extra info on him and you r compatibility.

Be considerate and caring. You can’t call all the shots and all conversations will not revolve around you, for one. Second, treating him to a b-day dinner or sending a sweet card when he gets a promotion, or just because, shows him that you care.

Be open to his suggestions, make suggestions of your own. Give and take is the name of the game in relationships. Also, when you do the g&t, it gives you a chance to see if you enjoy yourself with him. Giving suggestions shows you are engaged and allows him to find out more about  you. The more intimacy you build, the more ways he can fall in love with you.

Value yourself and your independence as much as his. Being your own person, not clingy, shows him that you are a secure and confident girl, so the attention you give him is more valuable. You won’t just hold hands at the movies and flirt over dinner with anybody.

Watch what you say. Playing that game where you devalue yourself verbally with a “Really? You want to go out with me?” or “Friday. I’m busy.” (and don’t suggest and alternate date time) attitude may just tell him you’re a-not interested or b-you don’t want to date.  Also, if you say stuff like “I’m not really into relationships right now,” and you really mean “I’d like to go out with you, but I’m in a vulnerable place,” best be honest and go for the second one. Then at least he knows to take it slow…and if he doesn’t…is he the right one?