Sexy costumes for Halloween are great on their own, but why stop at skimpy outerwear? This garment, “The Merry Widow,” will look great under any number of…hot little numbers. Hey, why follow a crowd? Those little extras are what make you “You.”

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The Japanese have always been on the edge of fashion, sometimes even base jumping off it! Well here’s no exception. Introducing: Bikini Jeans! Apparently these jeans are all the rage with teenage girls in Japan.

After hearing customer complaints about their jeans slipping down, Japanese designer Sandra Tanimura created Bikini Jeans. Tanimura states that her customers wanted very low trousers but had difficulty in keeping them up. “I came up with the idea of using bikini strings to let the trousers be really low without falling”, says Tanimura.

I almost fell off my chair when I saw this, but you be the judge!

Here are some tips to keep in mind when shopping for the right hosiery and  sexy jeans for you.

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The magnificent Sofia Loren once said of her famous curves, “Everything you see, I owe to spaghetti.” Bella Sofia, you are a goddess!

Wearing the right pair of jeans can make you feel sexy and confident. With so many Jean trends out there, it’s important not to forget to source out the jeans that are the best fit for YOUR figure. Here are 3 tips you should consider when shopping for those sexy jeans!

1) Clean silhouette. Sexy = hour glass. Men love curves, but even thoughthe muffin top has become a popular look, it’s not sexy. End of story. Maybe low-rise isn;t the fit for you. Choose your jean syle like this: If he were to reach around and grab you around your hips, will he be squeezing a smooth curve or a fistful of flesh pushed up by a ill-fitting waistband? Don’t add extra curves with poor fit! Add curves by maximizing your assets. Keep in mind, Sofia Loren would never sport a muffin top!

2) Buy them tight. For skin-tight fit, make sure you buy jeans one size too tight so when they stretch, they don’t go baggy.

3) No matter your shape or size, there is a perfect jean for you. Listen to your body, as your shape will do most of the talking here and tell you what feels right. Find the jeans that will hug your body in all the right places.

Keep these points in mind and you’ll strut with confidence!

(image of her breasts as altered digitally for “King Arthur”) 

Thank you, Duchess, aka Keira Knightley. She, um, flat out refused to have her body altered in press images for her upcoming movie “The Duchess.” This duchess, like Knightley, was known for her vibrant beauty. So, when Keira put her foot down about digital distractions, small breasted women could let out a victory whoop: oot down.”She has insisted that her figure stay in its natural state,” an insider said [as reported in the UK's Daily Mail]. “She is proud of her body and doesn’t want it altered.”

Keira  herself said on Britain’s GMTV: “I would love to have [breasts]! I’m never going to get [them]. I’m naturally who I am.”

Being a Virgo, I did a little extra reading when researching this month’s Zodiac Seduction post. Guess what I cam up with? Apparently, the belly is the the spot of seduction for us Virgos. No wonder I was so obsessed with bellydancing last year (any maybe why there’s always a little extra, um, “love” on my petitely round belly.) Well, in a quick aside, bellydancing of course is a way to show your belly some extra love and turn it into a center of sensual seduction (that Snoop song, I swear! When will it stop popping up in my head as I write this column?). Yoga also is a form of exercise that’ll give you a toned body, a strong core, but, I’ve noticed, keeps that nice softness of the form.

Yoga sex tips plus more here. 

(painting by Georgia O’Keefe) 

If you look at the LA Weekly, my local Village Voice news outlet, the rag is chock full of ads for vaginal rejuvenation. Hm. I’m not one to advocate getting together with your favorite women and using a hand mirror to check yourself out and discuss, but come on. Really? Are our nether bits actually that repulsive? I mean, look at Shunga art. The Japanese erotic master loved a flower V. Or any kind for that matter. Some women’s are baroque, some smooth with slender, thin lips, some with protruding clits, some with little nubs. Mind you, it’s not often you get to see another girl down there…unless you’re looking at erotic content or dating a woman. If any of you are feeling insecure about yourselves, just know we are all different and that ages just like the rest of us. Embrace it. And if you can’t tough luck if you are in Australia, because…”COSMETIC surgery to “rejuvenate” the vagina has been blacklisted by Australian gynaecologists who say women are being injured by the dangerous procedures. ” Read the full article here.

Sometimes getting ready is almost all the fun! Why keep all the glam for a girl’s night out when you can have a woman’s night in and primp to your heart’s content. Surely you have your own, established personal care routine, but here’s a way to tailor primping and preening to a night of seduction. Consider it foreplay with your favorite person! Dive head first into your favorite self-routine: take a long bath, do a hair mask, a face mask…whatever you love to do, but add these accents to make a night of seduction.

Primp and preen by taking care of the hair down there. Coochie Cream is a winning salve that’ll keep the bumps and irritations away after a date with your Venus.

Next, pick out a sexy chemise. Chemises are forgiving, sexy little nothings that flirst with nudity, but never quite go for the full reveal.

Accessorize with hosiery and body jewelry to take that slinky something to the next level.

Oh, and don’t forget to remember when your man gets home…so all your self love gets rewarded with that fire in his eyes and passion in his heart.

Have you heard of the manties phenomenon? I was rolling on the floor when I saw this video on YouTube. Who knew an Australian stud could dress up in silky nothings made for him and be such a roguish hunk. Panties for men…Ladies? What’s the verdict?

Summer time and you’ve been sweating to the oldies, going to pole dancing classes, or hanging out with your Jane Fonda Workout tapes for months. Your bod looks hot, you feel good, and your man is hot on your trail…Come to think of it: He’s looking good too. And with all the indoor lovin’ you’re finding yourself with your sheets in the wash twice a week. How come the winter you, the five-pounds-heavier you, the less-active you isn’t as sexually active? Find out more on why losing weight means better sex…or not…here.