Check out this list from the frisky.com of 100 qualities your boyfriend should posses. Kudos to Amelia for compiling this thoughtful list. Well She Knows readers, how many of these qualities that matter to you does your man posses? Amanda Writes, “My Next Boyfriend…

1. …will not cheat on me.
2. …will recycle, donate to a cause, volunteer, and otherwise be a contributing member to society’s well-being.
3. …won’t put others down to make himself feel better.
4. …will treat everyone with respect.
5. …will have a job.
6. …will not smoke pot.
7. …will talk when the need arises versus trying to put it off until later. Read the rest here!

Here are some love tips on how to motivate him to become the man of your dreams!

Reality shows like “so you think you can dance” is making dancing sexy again! Not since Ricky Martin was living la vida loca, was dance so popular. Can you believe that was a decade ago already? Yikes! Dancing as a language between a couple can be very sensual. Whether you’re on a first date or married, taking a dance class together can be fun and hot!If you’re on a date, dancing allows to break the ice, get a little closer without the proverbial pressure and discover each others rhythmic chemistry. If you’re married, you get to spice things up with style and work on some moves together so when you go to that next family party, you can take over the dance floor!

Try taking a dance lesson from one of the following three dance styles.

Salsa, Tango, Swing.

Also, try Belly dancing!

This is the age old question when it comes to romance, and it always will be. Should you follow your heart or listen to your thoughts? Whether your deciding on dating someone or your on the verge of a break up, this can be one of the toughest decisions you make. Is your “duty to your heart” as Mulan once said? Or, will you receive more peace of mind by weighing the pros and cons? But really, can you make a decision without the other?

You need to consider both in order to make decisions. That being said, I am a hopeless romantic. My advice on this one is… Follow your heart…Sometimes more than the mind can rationalize, the heart simply knows best. I say you find true happiness when you follow your heart, and if you do here are some tips for building a successful relationship.

So you and your boyfriend just broke up, your probably in a great deal of heart ache and pain. I understand. I have been there too. I am not going to go on about the pain you feel, because I know that you already know it all too well…but there is hope. Trying to get your ex back is not as impossible it may sometimes seem. However, when charting your course of action to win him back, you must also consider the dont’s so you stand a chance. Sometimes when two people part it makes them stronger. If he’s the one that ended the relationship, here are 5 dont’s to keep in mind when you’re trying to win him back:

1) Calling your ex several times a day

You’re only going to drive them further away. They need space. You will benefit from a little space too.

2) Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)

 Again, avoid contact. At least for a few days. Giving him space allows him to miss you too. He will then start to wonder, “Hey, why isn’t she calling?”

3) Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he called.

This will only depress you more. Of course you’re going to check. But you must set some rules for yourself. Like, “I’ll only check once a day” versus constantly checking and then not going out because you’re afraid you’re going to miss a call or email.

4) Feeling urges to spy on them

If he finds out, this will virtually guarantee the relationship is over - Be warned!

5) Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said or what you will say if you bump into them

Honestly, we all do this - But it’s not good for your self-esteem. It will only keep you thinking non-stop about the failures of the relationship. It will drive you crazy!

*Bonus tip - NO binge eating for comfort (Trust me, that comfort will only go so far, like your waistline!

In “Relationship Sabotage, The walls that get in our way, and how to break them down…” Advice.Love Detour.com gives us a very good breakdown of what the challenges are when facing this kind of counterproductive behavior in a relationship. LA Love Coach writes, “It’s all about self worth and why “this great catch” would want this “imperfect human being”. Not only is this self-sabotaging behavior destructive to the relationship, it’s hurtful to both parties and gets in the way of allowing the relationship to flourish”. I have personally been in a situation like this where the person I was dating kept sabotaging the relationship because they’re self esteem was very low. This behavior can sometimes be an obstacle you don’t get over. Read the rest of the article to get more information on how to better deal in this type of situation.

In “What your kiss says about you,” Katy Guest at the Independent UK writes about a recent study on how people relate to each other through kissing. Are you a leaner? Do you lean left or right? Read the article here and find out what your kissing style says about you!

With the economy as such where spending money on a big trip isn’t exactly realistic, it’s time to get creative and reinvent the weekend getaway. Just because you can’t fly to Paris doesn’t mean you can’t be romantic and take a drive to that little French town two hours from the city and make a weekend of it, strolling through Main st.? Go on a a weekend getaway with your love, preferably somewhere neither of you have ever been, whether it’s a cabin, a new city or some beach town, pack up some unmentionables (don’t forget candles!) and take a drive to a nearby destination and play tourist. It will make you feel like newlyweds! Once My boyfriend and I missed a flight and had to wait the entire day for the next plane out. We made the most of our day by visiting tourist sights we never really get to enjoy, getting pampered at the spa, trying new restaurants according to the theme of the weekend, and we ended up having one of the best times ever!

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1. When you’ve got your sight set on the man you desire, let your gaze linger longer than usual.2. Once you’ve caught his eye, let yourself go on a visual journey of his body. If you sense that he likes it, you’re well on your way to seduction success.

3. It’s still all bout the eyes. When you are on the prowl, make sure you dress to impress. Think “well-groomed,” “alluring,” and  “flirtatious.” Not “Jerry Springer guest” or  the “before” picture on a makeover.

4. Do some recon and figure out how to give him butterflies on your first date.  What arouses your date? Excites him? This means that when you are flirting, pay attention to what he says and ask questions that allow him to reveal his loves and likes.

5. Smile. No, not hysterically. But just so you seem approachable and friendly. Also, make sure your actions suit the mood of the encounter. You may even want to mirror his body language at times…a subtle message that says “I feel you.”

Just for the record, read this to find out dating don’ts.

Daily Bedpost sure has got a great thing going. Check out this fantastic video about pick up lines.

Here’s my best and worst pick up lines:

Best: Hello.

Worst: Are you waiting for me?

An abstinence trend would surely bring a smile to the faces of parents of the young and frisky. Abstinence programs don’t seem to have much of an effect on the teens they’re targeted at: “Study after study has shown that those schooled in abstinence rhetoric are just as sexually active as those who aren’t, leaving the right wing with virtually no credibility on the subject,” reports Alternet.org. So what’s the pro-absitinece corps to do? They’re targeting teen magazines, comedy, and fashion as outlets to get their point across. Read all about it here.  Willthey succeed? Is thisa good idea in our libertine age? What do you think?