And if the toy sale isn’t enough inspiration and you feel a little lost about  the ins and outs of goodies in the bedroom, check out our blog archive on Position of the Week and Fun with Toys. That’ll be enough to inspire some hardcore summ-erotica.

All right, cowpokes, you know how to ride your man looking into his baby blues. Did you know that swinging around so he’s looking at your back can be a visually and physically stimulating treat? He gets in at a different angle, like doggie-style, but you’re doing the does that amek him hot to trot, with an unparalleled view of your behind.Also, how about some info about sizzling exercises to improve your sex life?

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It’s summer, and you’re in full bloom. I bet you’re cranky, hot, and horny. Why not try the classic position for pregnant women: doggie style. Yes indeed. But being summer, have you man get a little creative. Incorporate a mister to spritz lightly on your back as he get busy…or perhaps he can slick his hands with massage oil and give you a little rub down as you come up to ecstasy. Just a thought.

You’re tired, the kids are driving you nuts…try this position.

Lay flat on your stomach with your legs together. Have your man rub your neck, shoulders, back, massaging the tension out of your body. Using a little lube, he should massage your buttocks, slowly opening you up for insertion. You’ll feel extra tight to him and he’ll be hitting you in all your sweet spots.

Ah, yoga. Nothing like it to bliss you out…but incorporating a little yoga into your sex life can only be good. Yoga, after all, means “union” and is meant to get your blood flowing. Working a little downward dog action into your bedroom can yield deep penetration and a very stimulating angle. (See image for non-XXX downward dog pose). I recommend, when doing it doggie-style that you bow down in a way similar to this pose. Brace yourself with your arms, face close to the mattress. (It’s easiest if you are kneeling on the edge of the mattress while he is behind you or if you are bent over a sofa…something that allows you to bend forward and ‘kiss’ the surface.) Arch your spin and lift your hips, replicating the downward dog posture in your back and hips. Talk about going down and going deep! (If you want to try this position without any pressure, have a look here.)

Maybe it’s the heat, but today I’m a bit orally fixated. Between aching jaws and chewing gum, I’m thinking a lot about going deep. I mean, Deep Throat, the 1970s adult movie, was such a hit they’re making branded energy drinks and even doing a musical of the classic porno!

To, uh, untangle your tingle, you can try this at home:

Lay back on your bed with your head slightly hanging over the edge…or laying back on a sofa rest your neck on the sofa arm. It should be like when you get your hair washed at the hairdressers. Basically, if you want to take him in your mouth, deeply, this position set your head and throat at the same angle as his penis, allowing for access that is easier on you. Now, ladies, this takes practice and can be quite a feat. If you can get a good thrust in once, you’ve done well.  And it if it doesn’t feel good, don’t do it.

Plus, these oral sex mints only get you so far…

An overlooked and a taboo place to stimulate your man are his bottom (by bottom, I mean the taboo part) and his perineum (The area of skin rich in nerve endings that is located below the anus). Lo and behold, those two places are centers of intense stimulation. When making love to your man this week, throw a little of this into the mix. (Caveat: Check with him first about how he feels about having your put your finger inside him, putting your tongue there or even rubbing that part of his bum. For some men it is totally taboo. Most men I know-biblically and not-LOVE some attention there. Ask. Discover. Accept and/or compromise.)

This week, we’ll approach these two sweet spots through the act of oral sex. Slick a little lube on between your thumb and index fingers, giving you just enough glide to slide yours hands easily on skin. (You’ll be adding a massage-like move to standard oral.)

Perform oral as you most enjoy, but silde your hand so your thumb rests along his perineum and your other fingers are between his cheeks. Gently rock your hand back and forth, massage-like, gauging his pleasure by moans and feedback. If he seems to dig the anal attention, go ahead and play with the rim of his anus. If he says it’s Ok, go ahead and slide a finger in. (Note: If penetrating, use extra lube. Remember, the bottom must be seduced! It has no lube of its own. Relax him there before going at it.)
These new sensations should drive him wild. And giving pleasure is a gift unto itself.

Well, if we’re talking garters and stockings, there’s no better way to showcase your sexy lingerie and your self than by requesting a little oral and then showing off your bum by flipping over and showing him your behind. That is, ladies, once you have him stunned with your sexy lacy bits and your wonderful lady bits, take charge and ask for what you want! For full effect, wear a pretty dress or skirt that pulls up easily (Not too short! The panty-less brigade is no model for a lady!). After the dramatic reveal, let him kiss y our thighs and use his tongue. Then, treat him to the nicest view he’s since since your visited the Empire State Building! Um, this is a pretty good post-wedding encounter…

Summer Fun and Seaside Pleasure! Time to get inspired by the briny.

Here’s how to merge your bodies like an octopus that never wants to let go of the love:

Sit on the floor facing each other. Have him in a seated recline on the floor, like he’s lounging with his legs bent and arms behind on a grassy knoll.  Sit facing him on where his lap would be and sling your legs over his shoulders. It’s a bit of a challenge, but the intimacy is strong and the move goes deep. Great for slow, long Ooohs that originate in your g-spot. Plus, you’ll get a good look at each other’s tanned summer skin.

Did you just move into a new place? Do you feel like your relationship has everything and the kitchen sink? Well, loyal She Knows readers, here’s one that’ll pop the cork on that housewarming happy buzz.

The basic idea is that you get lifted up onto a domestic surface - the kitchen counter, the drier (especially if it’s running) - and he stands. You wrap your legs around him and fill yourselves with the joy of your new place, your new remodeling job…whatever. It’s your relationship, your apartment and it comes with everything and the kitchen sink.