Reality shows like “so you think you can dance” is making dancing sexy again! Not since Ricky Martin was living la vida loca, was dance so popular. Can you believe that was a decade ago already? Yikes! Dancing as a language between a couple can be very sensual. Whether you’re on a first date or married, taking a dance class together can be fun and hot!If you’re on a date, dancing allows to break the ice, get a little closer without the proverbial pressure and discover each others rhythmic chemistry. If you’re married, you get to spice things up with style and work on some moves together so when you go to that next family party, you can take over the dance floor!

Try taking a dance lesson from one of the following three dance styles.

Salsa, Tango, Swing.

Also, try Belly dancing!

Summer is officially over. And when you can’t quite have something, boy, do you crave it. Thanks to Yahoo!, here’s a list of North America’s sexiest beaches for one last hot, sweaty, summer fix. (By the way, if you’re in LA, you know that bikini is being shelved anytime soon!)

From Lynn Parramore for Yahoo! 

For many urban jungle dwellers, the stimulation of breathtaking scenery and perfect temperatures is enough to kick-start the libido. The topographically-blessed states of California and Hawaii offer perhaps the most gratifying combination of untamed nature and unrestrained sexiness. Picture yourself cavorting among hula dancers in the lush tropical wonderland of Maui’s stunning Kaanapali Beach. Or perhaps you’d rather be frolicking with ripped surf kings beneath the rainbow-laced mountains of Kauai’s Hanalei Bay.

California’s La Jolla Cove, with its rugged sandstone cliffs, is another one of those pinch-me beautiful places etched into our minds from countless movies and postcards. These are places that demand we peel back as many layers of prudery — and clothing—as we dare.

Maybe you prefer your own private paradise? Two of our top picks boast special temptations for those vacationing as couples. Amid the lavish resorts of Mexico’s Playa del Carmen, couples indulge in massages surrounded by lush, fragrant gardens. Private infinity pools, secret dining spots, and Mayan saunas right on the beach are all here for the taking. Laguna Beach, a coastal jewel set between Los Angeles and San Diego,, offers hidden coves beyond the more scene-y stretches where you and your amour can steal away from prying eyes. For adults-only romance, Miami’s South Beach delivers plenty of sexy hotels where you can lounge on secluded beach-beds.

If you’re ready to keep up with the best, Cabo San Lucas is world-famous for attracting thirsty college kids, cruise ship revelers and fashionable party people from every corner of the world.

This is a more practical position of the week…as in it’s not so much a position, but a recommendation in this super season where sex on the beach and pool parties abound. You know, you can always go solo in the water…

Here’s a tip on condoms and water from About.com:

“Typically, condoms will not be weakened by the temperature of the water unless its very hot. Baths, hot tubs, and Jacuzzi’s, can become quite hot, so there is the possibility that this heat may cause some deterioration of the condom which could then increase the chance of it breaking.

Another area under debate is whether the chemicals used in a pool or hot tub affect the reliability of a condom. The general consensus of literature supports the idea that chlorine could cause further weakening of a condom, thereby increasing the likelihood of breakage.

Given this information, Jacuzzis or hot tubs may be even more problematic as the combination of the chemicals in the water and the high water temperature could diminish the durability of a condom.

Though there may not be any specific research confirming this conclusion, a good rule of thumb is to not use a condom in pools, Jacuzzis, or hot tubs as the possibility may exist that the temperature and/or chemicals found in these places may lead to the risk of condom failure.”

This has to bee (groan!) the most adorable video. Makes that summer buzzing of those honey-sweet insects sounds even sweeter, like summer gold. Nothing like a little summer lovin’ in the sun, eh? (Caution! It’s naughty, animated, and involves orgasm, but not XXX.)

Oops! I did it again…or did I intend for it to happen all along? Do you find yourself in bed with Mr. Tall Dark and Handsome when you go on a summer holiday?According to a Swedish dating site, 2 out of 3 people want to have a fling on their next jaunt out of the country. (And I thought Sweden was chock full of hotties…I guess not enough to stop inspires vacation lust.)

Apparently, the geographical distance from home makes us loosen up a little, says sexologist Lynn Heed.

But watch out…too much alcohol, Heed says, may loosen you up too much. Cheating is also more common when the cat is away.

It’s hot, but that doesn’t mean you’re not horny. Babeland knows this an sympathizes. Maybe that’s why they knocked out this list: 10 Ways to Get Off with a Waterproof Vibe. From the sprinklers to the shower, you go girl!

1. Sing in the Shower

A vibrator in the shower gives you reason to sing! If you share your living space with others, the shower can provide an oasis of privacy. Behind a locked door with the water running, the shower is the perfect place to enjoy vibrators discreetly. The aptly named ShowerBabe is a two-speed slimline that can be hung on a hook in the shower.

2. Get Wet and Wild Outside

Waterproof toys are great for outdoor adventures. If you love backpacking, camping, rafting, or kayaking, there’s no reason to leave your vibrator at home. The Babelight is a multi-tasking wonder. It’s an all-in-one keychain, flashlight, and waterproof vibe!

3. Indulge in a Sensual Retreat

Sometimes nothing is more relaxing and rejuvenating than a hot bath. Create a sensual retreat from the day’s worries by lighting candles and locking the bathroom door. Add one of our aromatic Babeland Body Bath Fizzies to the water. To set the mood, light up some of our Babeland Massage Candles, for ambiance as well as a footrub!

4. Slip ‘n Slide Adult-Style

One of our favorite sex toys is lube, because it really can make the difference between so-so sex and sensational sex.  Eros Lube is a miracle of modern technology; it’s a hypoallergenic, super-slick lube that even stays slippery underwater. It’s the most popular lube for use in hot tubs. Whether you’re soaking solo or looking forward to the hot tub in the honeymoon suite, Eros is the lube for you.

5. Learn to Squirt (and not with a plastic gun)

Waterproof toys are especially handy for women who ejaculate. Whether you’re new to squirting or regularly soak the sheets, you can enjoy all that satisfying wetness without worrying about ruining your favorite vibe. The Orchid G is a classic G-spot toy. It features a firm curve, convenient handle, and a vibrator located in the tip of the toy that’s great for clitoral stimulation. The Princess is another fabulous vibe for G-spot stimulation in the tub. Made of pliant PVC, it’s the ideal for folks who like a lighter touch on their G-spot.

6. Heat Things Up in the Hot Tub

Hot tubs are popular locales for erotic play. They comfortably hold two or more people, the bubbles can disguise all sorts of naughty teasing, and the jets hold intriguing orgasmic possibilities for women. Increase your hot tub fun with I Rub My Duckie, a powerful vibrator that masquerades as an innocent rubber ducky. Or take the Sonic Ring for a test drive; it’s a  waterproof vibrating cockring that’s easy to slide over a penis or dildo. It’s great for solo or partner sex!

7. Skinny Dip—Alone or With Friends

Skinny dipping is an incredibly sensual and exciting experience. Whether you’re swimming in your own backyard, a remote hot spring, or your local swimming hole, you can give yourself some extra thrills by bringing along a waterproof vibe. Both the Mini Heartbreaker and the Berman Athena are small, quiet, and easy to throw in the bottom of your bag in case you encounter the perfect opportunity to bare all.

8. Pump It Up

Although pumps are well known for use on penises, vacuum pumps, like our deluxe hand Pump and Cylinders, can also be used on nipples, clits, and other sensitive bits. To prepare for pumping, turn yourself on first by taking a bath or shower. Some people enjoy pumping while in the bath. Just disconnect the cylinder from the pump before submerging because the pump itself is not waterproof!

9. Upgrade an Old Favorite

Some waterproof vibrators differ only slightly from their non-waterproof counterparts. In a lot of waterproof toys, a small rubber gasket ensures that the battery compartment remains safe and dry. If you love the classic design of slimline or bullet vibrators, check out waterproof versions like the Water Shimmer or the Grapevine Vibe and take a new version of your old favorite toy to places you’ve only dreamed of.

10. Come Clean

One of the best reasons to love waterproof toys is the simplest: they’re a snap to clean. If you hate high-maintenance toys and materials, a waterproof toy is perfect for you. Dump your toys in the sink, scrub until you’re satisfied, and rinse them right under the faucet. No fuss! The Blueberry Buzz is a variation on the popular slimline design and one of our most popular sellers.

Hitting the doldrums with your man is easy to do: work is tough, you have a million and five things on your plate, you’re tired, he’s stressed, vice versa and so one. Having recently hit a patch like this with mine, I can tell you nothing was going to pull us out of the quick sand…or so it seemed.For some reason, I can’t pin point why, maybe out of some sort of wild desperation to relive happier, more carefree times (free of house payments, car payment, overtime…), we started doing things we loved to do as children. We went to the zoo, picnicked in the part, went to local fairgrounds, slept in late, and haunted places our parents used to take us as children.

Being at “that” stage in our relationship, we were reminded that making children was something we are really looking forward to. And, as if by magic, the libido was up and running again. Now, yoga took a back seat this month to spending time with honey, but it’s Ok. All the wandering around, impromptu games of tag, and what not kept that sloth feeling at bay. And, boy, does being a bit of a yoga freak have benefits we haven’t explored in bed. It’s just nice to see that we’ve found the time in our schedules, by letting the love in our hearts lead us, to be guided back to the bedroom for grown-up playtime.

Playfulness is seductive for singles too.

Ah, summer! Somehow, without trying, the magic of the romance novel arrives in my world! Stories about sheiks and British tourists in Syria, romance on the islands, continent hopping with Mr. Right, or the Candace Bushnell novel. I just finished Trading Up, so for those who think reckless ambition is a negative trait…maybe you’re in the wrong city. At least, that’s how it seems to go for our model-heroine who’s looking for Mi$ter Big Bucks and a little bit of cred. But that book is respectable; you can read it in public. This other one you’ll have to cover in plain brown paper, or keep it in the confines of an air-conditioned apartment. Eric von Gotha’s adult comics, set in a Dangerous Liasons-goes-kinky kind of world is my summer reading of choice. And in terms of things you never dared ask, he gives you a few tasty scenarios you’ll love to dream about…and maybe ask for a different kind of sex in your city.

1. Wear easy access clothing so he can slip his and or…under your cotton.2. Make friends with sweat. Your pheromones are stronger and that glisten is irresistible. But, be sure to stay fresh!

3. Take it slow. Your probably tired, feeling a little lethargic. Time to work a little tantra and focus on the subtle, soft, probing motions to work your way up to climax.

4. Play with ice! Use a glass toy that’s been in the freezer for a bit or play with a fun toy like the Icegasm (like a DIY vibrating popsicle) to contrast the white hot weather.

5. Bask. You worked up quite a sweat…now relax and enjoy the post-orgasmic thrill.

1. Sport Sexy Swimwear. My favorites are from Aqua di Lara.

2. Max Your Bod! Eat light, exercise a bit so YOU feel your sexiest.

3. Keep Your Tresses Sexy in the Sun. Beat the humidity by working with your waves and curls by using curl reviving products. Also, clips and barrettes are so much cuter than a ponytail. Think Sienna Miller. Think beach hair. And refine.

4. Sexy Smile, Good Makeup, Sexy Girl. Do summer justice to your face with sparkly eye shadow, coral cheeks, sun-kissed highlights, and a touch of color and body shimmer to make your skin glow. Flaunt your natural aphrodite.

5. Relax. We’ve already been over the need to relax to reach your max-orgasmic potential…embrace that on these lazy days (or your lazy five minutes). Your bliss will show up in your smile, the way you walk, the way you move…make time for yourself so you can give more of your faboo self to the world.