My Sex Toy Irritates Me

No, not because the battery dies at the crucial moment, but because of how it is made, what it’s made from, or, well, read on and find out why your sex toy may be irritating you.

Latex

Yup, just like that condom allergy, many sex toys have latex in them. Try 100 percent silicone, glass, wood, or metal toys instead.

It Could be the Lube

You might be allergic to preservatives, such as paraben (used in MANY body and hair care products), in your lube or the glycerin in water-based lubes. This form of sugar can be particularly unpleasant of you are prone to yeast infections. Silicone lubes may be a better option for sensitive yous.

Color Me Not Fine

The agents that color and scent products you use can be highly irritating to the body. (By scented, I don’t just mean the banana-flavored condom, but that new toy scent that comes with many objects of desire.) 100 percent silicone toys or those made from natural materials

Phthalates?

This group of chemicals, banned in the EU, may or may not be doing anything to you. PLENTY of evidence suggests they are hormone disrupters and equally as much evidence suggests that they do nothing. Bottom line: it’s inconclusive what they do, but you can err on the side of caution with natural-material toys, phthalate-free, or wholly silicone options.

Also…

Always wash your toy fresh out of the box. It may be slicked in mineral oil. Always wash your toy after use. Know your body: you may be aggravating an existing irritation. Pay attention to your shifts and changes. Love yourself by playing safe, even when it’s solo. Don’t be afraid to ask questions at your local adult toy store!