5 dont’s when you’re trying to win back your ex

So you and your boyfriend just broke up, your probably in a great deal of heart ache and pain. I understand. I have been there too. I am not going to go on about the pain you feel, because I know that you already know it all too well…but there is hope. Trying to get your ex back is not as impossible it may sometimes seem. However, when charting your course of action to win him back, you must also consider the dont’s so you stand a chance. Sometimes when two people part it makes them stronger. If he’s the one that ended the relationship, here are 5 dont’s to keep in mind when you’re trying to win him back:

1) Calling your ex several times a day

You’re only going to drive them further away. They need space. You will benefit from a little space too.

2) Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)

 Again, avoid contact. At least for a few days. Giving him space allows him to miss you too. He will then start to wonder, “Hey, why isn’t she calling?”

3) Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he called.

This will only depress you more. Of course you’re going to check. But you must set some rules for yourself. Like, “I’ll only check once a day” versus constantly checking and then not going out because you’re afraid you’re going to miss a call or email.

4) Feeling urges to spy on them

If he finds out, this will virtually guarantee the relationship is over - Be warned!

5) Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said or what you will say if you bump into them

Honestly, we all do this - But it’s not good for your self-esteem. It will only keep you thinking non-stop about the failures of the relationship. It will drive you crazy!

*Bonus tip - NO binge eating for comfort (Trust me, that comfort will only go so far, like your waistline!