How to Get Him out of Your Face

What is it with some guys that can’t take a hint? You’re not making eye contact. You’ve got your arms folded. You’re holding up a copy of “She’s Just Not That Into You.” But somehow…you’re cornered. Here’s a how to get him out of your face.

Some men will take any liberties they like in a social situation. Maybe his friends are watching. Maybe he’s a little tipsy and is looking at himself with beer goggles. Maybe he’s really super into you and will not take no for an answer. This can be a little intimidating for a girl, especially if she’s on her own.

Here are a few ways to get him to back off:

Don’t be afraid to be very, very direct. Tell him you’re not interested. If he won’t take you’re “I have a boyfriend” answer, let him know you are super committed to your man. And don’t worry about being curt. If he’s not backing off, there is little that won’t be forgiven if you make a scene to get a too aggressive guy off your back.

If he won’t leave you alone, make eye contact with your friends or a waitress to signal that you are in distress.

If he keeps on keeping on and you feel like you are in danger, remove yourself from his presence, tell an employee of the establishment your dilemma and stay with them until a cab comes to pick you up or you get walked to you car by someone you trust.