How well do you resolve conflicts in your relationship?

Ever wonder how that sweet man or woman could have ever said such hurtful things just a moment ago? One minute, you are whispering sweet words of affection, smiling, everything is wonderful - amazing even…. A few moments later, something is said or done and the next thing you know, you and your partner are screaming and berating each other, By the time either of you figure out that this wasn’t your intention - it’s too late.

“Many of us take a fight-or-flight approach to conflict, sometimes only to make our point stick. You and your future partner are on the same side of the same team, which is difficult to remember when you are in a heated argument” says Nancy Pina, author of How To Create Relationship Success.

You must approach sensitive issues with sensitivity. You must approach each other with love and never forget what’s important - You love each other.
Pina says, “Each has the responsibility to resolve issues around emotional buttons.”

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Ps. The faster you get past the conflict, the sooner you get to the hot make-up sex.