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BDSM and a Vanilla Partner

By Nala

 The above article is a great guide for those who’ve had a kinkier fantasy life (or real life) and have a partner who is less experienced in that respect.

Nala advocates easing a partner in to kinkier ways, and comes to this conclusion:

No matter how you bring the message, most important is to keep in mind that you are already halfway down the road you want to walk together. Walking that road together, discovering the wonderful world that’s called BDSM, means you’ll have to give your partner the space and opportunity to discover it at his/her own pace; finding out what it can do for the both of you and your relationship. You live long enough to spend some months together on this. Your patience will be paid back when you give your partner the opportunity to accept his/her feelings about BDSM.  Read the full article for an extended discussion on the topic.