Kinky curious? Start Here.

This is one of the friendliest intros to kink that I have found. Horray for blogger Auntie Mabel at “Head.” Here’s what’s written on this blog and a link to the rest of the article:“The last bastion of non-monogamous romance can be found in the least likely place: kink, the dark horse of the romantic world. Like Ally Sheedy in the Breakfast Club, you may think kink is weird and off-putting, but when given a chance, turns out to be cool and pretty sexy. The thing that makes S+M special is that it forces you to be present, both mentally and physically, during sex. It’s more about being super connected to your partner and trusting them than getting off. Getting into kink will remind you that sex should not be a selfish thing, but a mutual give and take in order to make each other feel good. It’s everything a positive relationship should be, plus badass accessories. So, as promised, a basic crash course into the world of BDSM.”  Read the rest.

Adam & Eve has put together an easy page full of “bad ass” “starter bondage items, from accoutrements to apparel. The items range from fun to Oh my! (see below). If you’re into dressing up naughty more than shackles and whips, they have a delightful selection of fantasy lingerie.

Fun

Oh My!