Postion of the Week: His Secret Places

An overlooked and a taboo place to stimulate your man are his bottom (by bottom, I mean the taboo part) and his perineum (The area of skin rich in nerve endings that is located below the anus). Lo and behold, those two places are centers of intense stimulation. When making love to your man this week, throw a little of this into the mix. (Caveat: Check with him first about how he feels about having your put your finger inside him, putting your tongue there or even rubbing that part of his bum. For some men it is totally taboo. Most men I know-biblically and not-LOVE some attention there. Ask. Discover. Accept and/or compromise.)

This week, we’ll approach these two sweet spots through the act of oral sex. Slick a little lube on between your thumb and index fingers, giving you just enough glide to slide yours hands easily on skin. (You’ll be adding a massage-like move to standard oral.)

Perform oral as you most enjoy, but silde your hand so your thumb rests along his perineum and your other fingers are between his cheeks. Gently rock your hand back and forth, massage-like, gauging his pleasure by moans and feedback. If he seems to dig the anal attention, go ahead and play with the rim of his anus. If he says it’s Ok, go ahead and slide a finger in. (Note: If penetrating, use extra lube. Remember, the bottom must be seduced! It has no lube of its own. Relax him there before going at it.)
These new sensations should drive him wild. And giving pleasure is a gift unto itself.